The Protocol
A BDSM game for two, as a guided scene: roles and limits chosen in secret, a step-by-step build-up, traffic light and aftercare.
Before you start
- A game for two, on a single phone: one of you leads, the other is led.
- Each of you chooses a role and limits in secret; the other only sees the roles.
- The scene builds in stages: prelude, build-up, peak, then a gentle wind-down.
- The traffic light stays on screen: orange = slow down, red = everything stops, no questions asked.
- Nothing is sent or saved. Nothing tight or pulled around the neck, never leave anyone tied up alone.
A BDSM game for couples, guided from start to finish
The Protocol stages a consensual power game: one of you leads, the other lets themselves be led. Each of you chooses a role and limits in secret, the scene builds in stages, and the traffic light is within reach at every moment. It always ends with a tender moment and a few questions to talk it over.
How to play
- Together, choose the maximum intensity, the length and the accessories you have to hand.
- Each in turn, in secret: your role (lead, be led or switch) and, for each theme, yes, gently or no.
- The scene unfolds in four parts: prelude, build-up, peak, wind-down, with a traffic-light check between each.
- Aftercare and debrief: take care of each other, then talk about what you loved.
Frequently asked questions
What happens if one of us says “red”?
Everything stops at once: the game goes straight to aftercare, no questions, no blame. “Orange” lowers the intensity of what follows.
Can the other person see my limits?
No. Only your roles are announced. The game silently applies the more cautious limit of the two of you on each theme.
Do we need any equipment?
No: a good half of the dares are played with bare hands. Scarves, a blindfold, a massage candle or a flogger add variations if you have them.
What if we both want to lead?
You need one person who leads and one who is led. With two “switches”, the roles swap halfway through.